The other woman...

I was never the other woman (or TOW) and I'm NEVER going to be. I know, I know... Never say never. But in this case NEVER is NEVER. I can understand that there is a situations where you don't know that a guy that you are seeing is in a relationship or married with someone else. What I'll never understand is when a woman knows that that guy IS in relationship with another woman or worse IS married and have wife and children and she still wants to be with him.

Like I said I was never TOW but I was in relationship that ended with TOW in equation. In my parents marriage there was countless TOWs and I couldn't understand why my mother tolerated my fathers affairs for so long before she ended it when I was almost 19. Her answer is that she stayed in that marriage for us (my sisters and me), but that she couldn't take it any longer and we were old enough to understand. For me that is not a reason to stay with someone who cheats and humiliates you over and over again.

How can that woman look herself in mirror and not be ashamed and guilty for what she is doing to that woman who don't knows that her boyfriend or husband cheats on her? How can she be OK knowing that she is destroying a family?

I know that it's not just her fault and that it takes two for tango (or something like that) but still. She knows what she's doing and she is OK with that.

My motto is: 'If you can't be faithful and loyal to the person that you are in relationship with or are married to than end that relationship or marriage no matter how hard it is and be with the one that you want to be with.' It's better to end something and start with someone new than to be a cheater. Well, it is for me. I could cheat and I knew that nobody would ever knew but I didn't because that is not me and I loved my fiance. But he had other planes and it's a whole another story.

I knew a girl who had no problem with being TOW but she had a problem when her boyfriend cheated on her. How can you be so hypocritical?

What do you guys think? If you cheated will you have a problem to be cheated? Were you TOW and why (if you don't mind me asking)?

P.S, Yesterday I found out that The Other Woman from my relationship with my ex fiancé married my ex and I'm ok with that. Birds of a feather flock together.

That's all from me on this topic =)